Love vs. the Machine

When he had received the drink, Jesus said, "It is finished." With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit. John 19:30 NIV

 

 

Now there is something which the other Gospels make clear.  He bellowed, shouted, just before He let death take Him and it is not something to miss.  He hollered while hanging on the cross, “It is finished!”  Why would He yell that?  Why would He want to make sure everyone witnessing His death heard that?  Why did Jesus leave that as His last statement before giving up His Spirit?  Consider carefully what Jesus made clear was His reason in life, His purpose.  “The Son of Man has come to seek and to save what was lost.” (Luke 19: 10 NIV)  Jesus came to seek out and save those lost in their sin, those alienated from God and hopeless.  He came in other words to rescue people.  In 1Peter 2:21-25a is the delineation of what this meant.  …Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example that you should follow in his steps. "He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth." When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been healed. For you were like sheep going astray… (NIV)

What was finished when Jesus died?  He sought you out.  He found you and all your sin.  He then bore them on the cross and when He died, your sins died with Him.  He suffered the insults of people.  He was beaten by people.  He was nailed to a cross by people.  Then He let people mock Him until He died.  He looked at people and not one time did He call any of them a machine. Not one time did He turn from them like you would turn from a machine.  He looked at you.  He loved you.  He bore your sins and let them die in His body.  When all your rebellion against Him came into His body, when all the shabby ways you have treated people came into His body, when every cruel and selfish and indecent act of yours came into His body, He made it clear you were not a machine only to be used; He gave you His love.  He held onto your eternal life because you are not a machine…He did not let it go when the horror of death came upon Him.  You He loves because you are a person.  Not a person who has done great things.  Not a person who has accomplished great tasks.  Not a  person who has made Him better.  You are a person and that is reason enough for Jesus to bear your sins and love you.

How can you respond to that?  What can you do after that?  We are told to follow in His steps.  Never look at someone again and see a machine...a clump of corpuscles and nerve cords you might use and disregard like a tool in the shed  See a person you love.  Today, see a person before you and love.  See your crazy neighbor and love.  See your father and love.  See your mother and love.  See your boss and love.  See your husband or wife and love.  See your brother and love.  See your sister and love.  See the bitter, angry, frustrated, sarcastic, disturbed, self-serving, gossipy, traitorous, untrustworthy, conceited, negative, immoral, unbelieving, ungrateful person across from you and love.  We love…because He first loved us!

No Fault Divorce

Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?"

Mark 10:2 NIV

When a relationship of yours is broken, how do you know it is your fault?  For some they are never at fault.  Surely you don’t fit into this category of people but most have trouble accepting blame when they are squarely in the midst of an argument.  It is too satisfying to keep at it, to keep pounding away at fault, keep hammering the point.  The ability to shut-up in the middle of a fight is a God-send, but only if it results in a change of direction.  Given our tendency to lay blame, it is almost a pipe dream to hope that we could see our fault in a matter when we are steamed.  Adam and Eve proved that at the heart of sin is a propensity to lay blame, to find fault without rather than within.  One of the clear signals that we have erred and perhaps erred badly is a righteous anger that we have been wronged.  Consider the admonitions we find in scripture regarding fractured relationships.  "Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.  (Matthew 5:23-24 NIV)  "But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. (Luke 6:27-28 NIV) "Do not judge, or you too will be judged.”  (Matthew 7:1-2 NIV)  "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. (Matthew 7:3-5 NIV) But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. (Matthew 5:39-40 NIV)

The weight of scripture is stacked against you if you are making your case in a broken relationship.  Whatever argument you may have wedged into your fight, whether spoken or unspoken is nearly always wrong or at least irrelevant.  There is almost no room for squaring things off; at least if you are pretty certain it is the other person’s corner that is misaligned.  Our bent heart rarely gets it right when we begin to assess blame.  Sin warps our view of nearly every accusation we have; we are much more likely to get it wrong when we are incensed than have grasped the right thread of a matter.  Nothing violates our life with God more than playing the judge in our disagreements; acting as the accuser in our fractured relationships.  Fault may be shown but most likely it will only be our own that we find uncovered in the rubble.  Better to forgive, ignore or let go than fight on and try to take it to the mat.  Adam knew it was his wife’s fault but right or wrong in his assumption, he was given bitter toil for life for his part…one must wonder what God would have done instead if he had simply said he was wrong and left the matter at that…leaving Eve out of it.  We know our God’s mercy.  Why trifle with his patience by keeping our fights alive when we can simply end them with forgiveness and a resolve to give up the cloak demanded of us?  Blessed still are the peacemakers for they will be called the sons of God.  Isn’t it better to be happy than cling to a warped form of rightness?

Do The Faith

Back in the Old Testament we see one of the most practical and profound examples of faith.  Abraham, but at the time we are speaking still known as Abram was living with his wife Sarai in Haran because he and his father Terah decided to move there.  Why they left their home in Ur to set out for Canaan which was much further south we don’t know but rather than continuing the journey, when they reached Haran, the little clan just stopped there.  Nothing is said of God telling them to go to Canaan or stop in Haran, they simply went there.  This though is where the story gets quite interesting because when Abram was 75 and his father 155 years old Abram was told by God to leave Haran and go on to Canaan.  Now how this came to him we cannot say; it may have been through a dream or a vision or just a sense but however it came to him, the message was clear.  Abram was to leave Haran and go to Canaan and there God would make his name great and everyone in the world would be blessed through him.  That of course was a monster of a word from God but again we don’t know how it came to Him nor how believable it seemed for Him or anyone else.  All we know is that Abram packed his things and brought his wife and nephew Lot and all his stuff as well as his employees down to Canaan.  Terah, his father, did not go however. Why didn’t he?  Perhaps he didn’t have faith in what Abram said was a word from God.  Maybe he was tired and just wanted to relax.  He did live another fifty years in Haran though so it isn’t like he was at death’s door.

Faith is a practical thing.  For Abram it was the quite concrete and common-place act of moving.  For you it could be quitting your job, giving more to the church, starting a cell group in your home, changing majors, building a friendship, stopping a habit, forgiving a sin, rejecting a sinful behavior, carving out time to study the Bible, praying over a sick friend, taking up the piano, giving away your TV, organizing a mission trip, starting a conversation about your faith, inviting neighbors over for dinner so they can hang out with a real Christian, saying “no” to an opportunity because you realize God is telling you “no”.  Abram had to leave his father in Haran when he wouldn’t go and move to a place filled with danger and corruption but he went because by faith he knew God wanted him to go.

Faith is the practical act of doing what has become clear God wants you to do.  The Holy Spirit can speak to you through a dream, through the Bible, through a Christian friend or just a clear sense of something but as it starts to become obvious to you that God is pushing you into an act, it is the most right and perfect thing for you to do, both for you and those impacted by you doing the faith act.  Your hesitancy only makes your relationship with God muddied and inhibits the blessing God has for those affected by your act of faith.  The longer you wait to do what God has said, the less you know anything of God and His ways, the more hard and unproductive your life becomes and the less you do any good for anyone.  In fact you may hurt greatly those you love by stopping at the point of faith.  We would never have had a Savior if Abram had stayed in Haran, but when He acted in faith he started the same sort of thing you too can start.  He kicked off a chain of events that resulted in God blessing Abram’s world.  Do the faith act and you will know God like never before and those you are afraid you will hurt by your obedience to Christ will be blessed beyond your dreams.  You are Abraham and you are Barnabas and you are Ruth.  Read your Bible daily and each time you know God has told you to do something act in faith and do it.  Do it and don’t hesitate.  Do the faith.

Minding Your Business

Minding Your Business

What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don't get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God. (James 4:1-3 NIV)

Every form of anger other than righteous or holy anger generated by the Spirit of God is due to a lack of contentment with what God has given you or allowed come to you.  When you want more than He wants you to have or feel that you deserve something better than what you have gotten, whether it be better treatment, more respect or greater influence, you get angry or depressed and the peace of God leaves you.  Angry, bitter thoughts sprout within a mind that has not made Christ its center or Lord.  Cursing, complaining and angry words are always a sign of idolatry; of wanting something more than what comes out of the hand of Christ.

When Christ is not the source of your joy and peace, your mind will become less able to guide you rightly, making you susceptible to depression, anger, apathy and confusion.  Nothing weakens your mind’s ability to make sense of things more than your devotion to Christ weakening.  You are less patient, more prone to take offence, less able to forgive, more judgmental, more frustrated and your ability to make sense of your life diminished.  The mind out of sorts with the Holy Spirit lacks the most important component needed to be happy and at peace; the guidance and empowerment of God.  The mind becomes a battleground where despicable and hurtful thoughts fight with what is right and good and all too often win.

The way to clear your mind and make your thinking free of its power to mislead you is to follow the instruction of Philippians 4.  Present your requests to God rather than ponder them, complain about them or fume about them.  Be thankful rather than disappointed, keep looking for the good Christ is doing for you and do not be misled into thinking you are somehow losing or missing out.  Every circumstance is being used by God for your good so there is never a reason to be frustrated or upset about how someone treats you or the difficulties you face.  The role of your mind is to keep bringing you to Christ if it isn’t, you must discipline it to do that very thing.  Force yourself to be thankful to God or ask for His help.  If you aren’t doing one or the other, you are losing your mind to every trap and misdirection Satan may use to confuse and confound you.  It is certain if you fail to pray for help or thank God for what you have at any moment, you risk losing your thoughts to a demonic attack upon your brain, one you may even know is happening.  Depression, anger, bitterness, jealousy, despair, loneliness, lust, disgruntlement, self-pity are not from God.  They are all the fruit of refusing to either ask Christ for help or thank Him for what He has given you.  You may be snared in one of Satan’s traps or just living in the natural result of your own sin but you don’t have to stay there.  Your mind can be happy and contented but you must go back to the one thing.  Praise Christ for what you have or ask for His help.  Reclaim your mind and get on with the business of having a good life today.